Saturday, August 13, 2011
Appearently I'm "not girlfriend material"? Please lend advice?
Ok so this isn't a serious problem but it's just something that's been bothering me a bit. I'm about to be a sopre in high school and I still never even kissed a guy yet. (Not saying that I care to) But I was raised totally different from all my friends so I have this crazy moral thing going on. In other words, me and my friends have nothing in common. But they think I'm pathetic for not kissing a guy yet but they lost their virginity at 14! My friend got "married" at 15 than broke up with the guy to date someone else. I mean, for Junior year I'm moving away to a new school. I know it seems far away but I know who I am and I know what matters to me and I'm not changing that. Anyway, I'm actually glad to be getting away from my friends but something they said bothered me. They were saying that no guy would want a girl as "ethical" as me. Apparently I'm not girlfriend material. I mean I'm pretty shy (only because I don't want to get involved in stupid drama. Which I suppose is inevitable in high school, but I try) and my friend said moving to a new school is a good opportunity to reinvent myself and become popular and get a boyfriend. But I don't want to be popular. I feel that changing who I am to fit the expectations of people so shallow is pointless. Does that mean no guy would ever like me? I mean I'm definitely not "easy". I don't play stupid games with guys and I hate guys that play games with me. I feel like if you like someone just tell them. I don't care about reputations and "getting some" like my friends do. Does this mean I'm pathetic? I always liked who I am. I felt like my head was in the right place but now, I'm not sure. Is being overly ethical a bad thing? Just please give me some advice because I want to be myself but I don't want to be a total pariah because of it.
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